Flustrated

So seriously, why is sit that here I am lying in the damn hospital and it seems that some people don't think anything about it? TWICE now have I had visitors that completely disregard MY place and insensitively invite Jason to go out to eat with them. And in BOTH cases to favorite restaurants of mine. I understand my husband may be under lots of stress and that yes it sucks for him too, but really don't come here and invited him out to eat and ask ME if i'm going to be mad, just assume the answer is yes. I'm stuck eating crap 3x a day and now it's limited crap, I do not want you to come in and invite dear hubby out for yummy meals while I eat me crap alone. So DON'T DO IT.